Sex is ubiquitous. Sex is powerful. Sex is charged and intense. Great sex is a skill set you can learn at anytime. I help people do this.

I began my work as a “sex educator” in public health, as an std/hiv counselor in 1995. I enjoyed working to empower people through health(ier) sexuality, but tired of focusing on pathology. I thus redirected my efforts into inspiring and educating people to have more enjoyable sex, practice (com)passionate communication with partners, and learn to receive, give and share while being awake to the joys of erotic pleasure.

I believe that our bodies know the truth of what is good for us, but our willingness and/or ability to listen has been sabotaged. I teach to both your body and your brain, using touch, technical skills, breath, communication, philosophy and presence practices to help you be where you want to be. More often than not, embracing a fulfilling and resplendent sex life is about getting out of your own way, and re-membering what you already have a hunch about! Truly seeing your partner/s is also an important aspect of the exploration and I love working with partners.

I teach in both public and private settings, working with adults interested in freeing themselves of inhibitions and trauma, and taking a more pro-active role in the fulfillment of sexual desires. I work with individuals, couples, and groups.

My expertise lies in integrating sex into a healthy, fun, embodied lifestyle, tailored to each individual, beginning where one is right now.

My primary areas of focus are:
Establishing intimacy with Self
Making sex as fun and stress-releasing as possible;
Sex as spiritual practice
Increasing sexual/intimate confidence
Conscious celibacy
Sexual – emotional healing
Expanding the intimacy/sexual repertoire to meet all partners needs
Communication skills. Be able to talk to yourself and partners about sex and desires
Using the breath as an erotic guide
Inhabiting the bodymind to fulfill desire using movement and sound to increase sexual satisfaction
Healthy bodymind = healthy sex.

I currently present a variety of workshops in private and public settings, including:
Red hot romance 101 and 201
Breath of fire: an erotic breath playshop
Designing intimate rituals
Play piercing 101
From vanilla to sparkle chocolate chunk! Parts 1 and 2
Dating in dykedom
Flirting and relational dynamics
Ask and you shall receive: happily asking for sex, and getting it!
PRESENCE: sexual prowess right NOW!
Amorous options: an exploration of relational possibilities
Powered play: using energy to enhance sex and play